If your last relationship was toxic you are also toxic. If you are surrounded by toxic people then you yourself are toxic. We enjoy victimizing ourselves while calling out those around us when the truth is we only manifest what we are. We can only manifest what we align with, nothing more nothing less. So if you want to manifest something greater it starts with first admitting that you were toxic and thatâ€™s why you welcomed and slept with toxicity. When you take accountability for your contribution it allows your life to open up. It allows you to be free. Healing starts with accountability because accountability is self-care.